Divorce is difficult in any case, but when abuse is involved it can be
far more challenging. Remaining in an abusive relationship can be exceedingly
dangerous and damaging, especially if children are involved. According
to the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence (NCADV), nearly 10
million men and women are physically abused by intimate partners each
year. If you are suffering any type of physical, sexual, or emotional
abuse at the hands of your spouse, there is a way for you to find the
help you need to obtain a divorce. To learn more about divorcing an abusive
spouse, trust a family lawyer for guidance and legal counsel.
Asking for Help
For most people, escaping an abusive relationship requires some measure
of assistance. When you are ready to divorce your abusive spouse, you
may need to find a safe place to go, or information about restraining
orders and financial independence. Depending on your situation, you might
even need immediate protection from your abuser. There are countless sources
of help out there for those who ask for it, including domestic violence
hotlines, various charities, and family lawyers. You can also turn to
your local police, or ask trusted friends and family members for assistance.
For help leaving an abusive relationship, call The National Domestic Violence Hotline
at (800) 799-7233.
Making a Plan
Once you’ve reached out for help, the most important thing to do
is create a plan of action. Your safety and that of your children should
be your top priority. If you fear for your immediate safety, it is important
that you call the police immediately. Otherwise, create a plan for a safe,
smart separation. For most people, the safest option is to leave their
abuser and find a safe place to stay until permanent changes can be made.
If this is the case for you, find a reliable place to stay when you leave
home, and make sure you take important documents and paperwork with you.
This may include copies of your marriage certificate, property deeds,
tax statements, birth certificates, passports, social security cards,
and any other relevant documents. These papers will be necessary when
you begin the divorce process, and grabbing them now can be must simpler
than trying to obtain them later.
Finding a Divorce Lawyer
Once you are out of danger, it is important that you begin looking to your
legal future. If you want to seek a divorce, you must first find an experienced,
skilled attorney who has dealt with cases similar to yours before. Divorce
cases involving abuse can be much more complicated. Your attorney can
inform you of your rights at this point, and can explain the divorce process
so that you know what to expect next. The abused spouse may also need
an order of protection to prevent the abuser from making contact or attempting
further harm. Your attorney can help you obtain a protection order, and
can also help you file the appropriate documents to get your divorce underway.
If you are ready to get out of your abusive marriage, our firm can help.
Our legal team can provide you with the legal support you need when you
need it most.
Contact The King Law Firm
today to discuss your divorce case.